You Are More – The Spiritual Journey | Neeta Singhal

You Are More – The Spiritual Journey | Neeta Singhal


So basically we are going to talk
on the topic ‘You Are More’. What does ‘You are more’ mean? ‘You are more’ is the shout
of the whole universe. The sound that comes from the
universe is ‘You are more’. Because we are born with this
intention that ‘You are more’. Today universe supports only those people.. Universe supports only those people.. ..who vibrate with this
intention ‘You are more’. The way stagnant water
starts stinking badly.. Just like that the universe
wants you to constantly evolve, constantly evolve
to ‘You are more’. What we have seen in Mahabharata… Where Lord Krishna revealed
his magnificent form. The magnificent form that he showed.. ..that I am everything. I
am Ram as well as Shiv. I am the land, the sky and the Underworld That was basically to show that
is the magnificence of creation. How magnificent creation can be.. And the universe only
supports people who work towards evolving
themselves more and more. Today every person is born
with a specific intention. Every person is born for
a specific creativity. ..and for that creativity you have to
vibrate with this intention ‘You are more’. Today a human is never fully satisfied. Never satisfied… If he can see only a particular distance
then he will invent a binocular. Today if he can run in a
particular speed, then he will invent a car, helicopter,
a supersonic jet… Because he doesn’t want to
be limited in anything. He can do only limited work by his
hands, so he invented machines. He knew he can think, calculate
only upto a particular limit, so he invented
computers, calculators. So today we don’t want to
be limited in anything… Yes or No. A Human being is a very complicated
machine but we don’t want to be limited. ..just because of our
boundaries we use this complex machine to
realize ‘You are more’. To realize that you are more, we
invent different different things. Whether it is music, whether it is in arts. Today we are not only limited
to paintings done by hand. We can do paintings through computers also. For everything we have invented machines. So that we can do our work much better… ..much evolved, much faster.. ..and in every ways much more magnificent So today what stops you from
realizing ‘you are more’? What blocks are there
inside you for which you are not able to realize
that ‘I am more?’ Where do you feel stuck and blocked..? Every person has got
different different blocks. And these blocks settle
in your seven chakras. There are seven chakras in your body. These seven chakra are
your seven dimensions. All the blockages and fears of yours… They get stuck in the seven chakras. When something is stuck how
do we clear it? By pushing Yes or No? Before pushing, you should
know what is the block. You just can’t say ‘I push it, I push it’. You should be able to look at the block. You should be ready that I want
the block to be pushed out. And then you have to push the block. If you don’t see the block. ..then you can’t release the block. So in our seven chakras there are
seven different types of blocks. ..Which we have to see. ..and release them. To realize your true potential. You don’t have to learn anything new… You just have to release,
what you think you are. The day you release
it…Automatically you will realize. You don’t have to learn to love,
you have to release the fear. Yes or No. The moment you release the fear,
what is your natural state? Love. Do you have to learn how to be brave? Do you have to learn how to be brave? Be brave, be brave you have to learn? No. You have to look at the
cowardice inside you What are my weaknesses, my cowardice? When you will see the cowardice, realize
it, automatically you will be brave. Do you have to realize
that you are hardworking? Do you have to learn how to work hard? No. ..Your laziness, your fear of work… Your fear of work when
you see it and release it, automatically you
will become hardworking. Because this is your natural trait.
Natural trait. And your natural trait is being powerful Being being.. In any way in all the positive qualities… ..that are already inside you… You just
have to look at the negative qualities.. And Release them and automatically
the positive qualities are imbibed. Everyone agrees to this or not? Doesn’t it make things simple for us? You feel you want to learn,
nothing you need to learn… You have to just unlearn whatever
wrong things you have learnt. ..and this is wrong that you have learnt. That work is very hard. People cannot be trusted. I am not good enough. These are all wrong things
that you have learnt. From where have you learnt it, from
where have they come inside you? From where all these limitations
and fears have come inside you? Yes? Audience: Past experiences… Past experiences… Yes… your past experiences when
you were growing up in your life… You were not able to perform
good in your school. ..or somewhere out of competition you lost. At that time, a fear came into
you that I am not good enough… Somewhere you started doubting
yourself, doubting your abilities. But by doubting abilities
you cannot become better. Yes or No. By doubting yourself you cannot go ahead… How will you go ahead? You have to first release
this self-doubt… Right… When you release the self-doubt.
You will develop the intelligence to see how
can I do it correctly? You have to understand every person
is not meant for everything. Learn this also. If you don’t do well in sports,
maybe you are not meant for sports. Every person has a unique quality. Yes or No. In school some people don’t perform well. Because they are inclined towards arts. Their inclination is different. So why you have doubt yourself? You
cannot be like the next person near you. Yes or No. When we are in school, when
you are growing up in life.. It’s often that parents
compare you with others. You compare yourself with peers. And you develop this kind of self-doubt. That if he can do it…why can’t I. But understand you are different. Yes. You are different. Today take any successful person. Tell Sachin Tendulkar to
do some technology work. You tell Lata Mangeshkar: Why don’t
you go in some corporate industry? You tell these people to do different
work, will they be able to do? So life is about realizing that
you have got a unique talent. And you can’t be the best in everything. But you will be the best in
what you are made for… Today you are made up of 4 consciousness. One is there outside your body. What is there inside it? Mind. and inside that senses. ..and inside that is your soul. In initial evolution, as you learn in life. You are aligned to your body. You are only concerned
with your survival needs. Let me eat and drink… Let My kids do well. We are healthy. My surroundings should be all fine. You are only concerned with your body. There are many people who live
purely with body consciousness. They are only concerned with body. I should be healthy, the kids
around me should be good. That’s it…we should survive. We should
have enough for what we want in life. That is living with body consciousness. But when you live in body consciousness. You are very limited. You can only see yourself and your family. And you are constantly in the
cycle of pleasure and pain. Family is happy then you are happy. If anything is unstable you are sad. Person who are in body consciousness,
financially they’re not abundant. You see people who work with the body. You see people like labourers. ..Who do a lot of body work. Yes or No. They are not financially that comfortable. They take time to be comfortable. What is the second stage…? You start coming out of
the body consciousness. Yes. Slowly slowly you start aligning
with your mind consciousness. Now where body is concerned
only with survival. Because mind can never die. Senses never die. It doesn’t have a tangible existence. Your body is the one concerned
with food, clothing, and shelter. It wants family also for stability. Now you come out of body consciousness. You evolve. Your body needs are satisfied. You evolve out of your body consciousness. And then you come to
your mind consciousness. Now in mind consciousness, what happens? You are concerned with the
role you are playing. Right you are concerned with
grasping more and more knowledge. And you are concerned about
what role I am playing? Am I a good worker? Am I good colleague? Are people working properly in my office? Your role as husband, your role
as a son, your role as a brother. In mind consciousness, you are
aligned to what you are doing. you are basically executing
with your knowledge. Slowly when your knowledge gets complete. Mind consciousness people are leaders,
managers, and business people. Politicians… Who are second and third level people? Who are aligned with their
sense consciousness? Those are the people who work
with their emotions, feelings. They do what makes them happy. Right. So they are all
working with emotions. Slowly when the role of your mind ends,
you start playing with your senses. People who achieve the top
through senses are actors, etc. Lastly when you get evolved and
you feel that I am satisfied… You start living as a soul consciousness. Who am I from inside? And I want
to do what I am from inside. And as you connect with the soul.. You achieve the maximum fame…
maximum abundance. You achieve everything in life when
you are connected to the soul. It is gradual, It happens
gradually in everybody’s life. Initially everyone is
concerned that me, my family and my health. It
is called survival mode. When you come out of it…You
come in the mind mode. Mind consciousness. I
should do my role properly. I should be a good worker. I should be a good businessman. When you come out of mind,
you enter into senses. I should be happy. He is not left with survival nor knowledge. Main is, I should be happy. As you get satisfied in
sense consciousness. You see whatever makes me
happy, also makes me sad. When you get satisfied
with your senses, you then enter into the
soul consciousness. When you enter soul consciousness,
you actually live who you are. When you get connected to your
soul, you get name, fame, success. You get everything when you
live as a soul consciousness. Actually I believe that you know.
We live many many births to ultimately realize
what we are made for. In every birth we have a different body. With that body we evolve
to a level, learn lessons. How many lessons you can take in this
body, you take, then retake another body. It is not necessary everyone
has to evolve in this birth. But whatever you have learnt in this birth. The Chakra Yog classes
you have learnt in this birth you will be carrying
it to your next birth. Not even a single learning
of yours goes waste. It goes along with it…Because
your Chitta (consciousness). Chitta is your consciousness. In your Chitta everything is stored. All your learnings are stored. Even your wrong learning
are stored in the Chitta Your wrong learning are
stored in the consciousness. Today if you have learnt
that I am not good enough. Your wrong learning are stored in the
consciousness. That will also go. Try to make your consciousness pure
as much as you can in this birth. According to that consciousness
you will get birth. You will get next birth
as per the consciousness. Body consciousness is
concerned with affluence. After a time you realize that how much ever
affluent I became I cannot eat double. I cannot. Money is not making me happy. For a time you will feel money
is giving me happiness, materialistic things are
giving me happiness. The day you start realizing that
this not giving me happiness. It’s temporary, while eating you
are happy, then you have to exercise to reduce the weight
and there’s no happiness there. Slowly you understand the cycle of
pleasure and pain is too much for me. Slowly you find out that
is not my true love. Your heart opens when
you live your passion. When you live as your soul consciousness. Your heart doesn’t open till that time. You are not happy, you are not joyous. Pleasure is different.
Today if someone tickles you, do you feel happy
or feel pleasure? Body, mind and senses
everything is like tickling. You eat good, stay in a good
house, wear good clothes. Right? People are jealous of you. People
feel you have lot of money. You are very happy
with that feeling. All these kind of feelings
are the tickling. After a while you get tired. I don’t want this. I want the
ocean of bliss inside me. I am happy. I am happy. I
am generally just happy. You realize that these things are
not giving you true happiness. But when you follow your soul.
All this will come behind you. Everything will come after you. Like this story. That Lakshmi, Durga and Saraswati… Come to a person’s house. They say only one of us
can enter the house. They had prayed a lot…but only
one of us can enter the house. They were very confused.
Should we call Lakshmi? If we call Lakshmi. Then knowledge
and protection won’t come. Whom to call? Durga? Finally
let’s call Saraswati. Because if knowledge comes,
everything will come. Others we can get. So when they
said Saraswati please enter. Other two automatically entered. They said we automatically enter with her. So understand there is no shortcut. But
what happens is it’s a realization. You get knowledge that
everything is temporary… Then you will at least see whether I
am happy or just feeling ticklish. I am in that cycle to earn earn earn.. Gave birth to kids. Raised them. Then die. You have not come for that. You have to rise above it… Kids will grow on their own
and settle on their own. In your mind whatever you
are thinking, that I want all the knowledge.
It’s all temporary. There is really no use of learning
that is not meant for you. Today Lata Mangeshkar has so much knowledge
of other things but it’s of no use.. Only her special singing talent is used. So today many people get
stuck up in knowledge. You want all the knowledge.
But why don’t you understand knowledge is infinite.
What all will you grasp? For how many births will
you take knowledge? Slowly you have to satisfy yourself… And you know what is the
formula, the shortcut formula to entering into
soul consciousness? What is the shortcut formula? SATISFACTION. Smallest formula. If you want success and
abundance in your life… Happiness. Then the
formula is Satisfaction. Satisfaction. The day you see your body consciousness and
say I am satisfied with what I have today. I am satisfied with my children. I am
satisfied with what I have achieved today. Then when you see mind consciousness
that yes I have played a role. Played a role of a wife, of a daughter but
I am satisfied with what I have done. There is no end to satisfaction. Yes or No. There’s no limit. But you
have to decide your limit that I want to be satisfied
today, it’s your choice. You sometimes get satisfied
by eating one roti or 10…it’s your choice.
No one stops you. No one stops you. When you come in soul, your
spiritual journey will start. My body is telling me that I
haven’t experienced this, I’m not married, and not
experienced any pleasures They said its okay. I don’t want it in my life. I
have seen others experiences. I don’t want it
anymore in my life. They decide I am satisfied. Then their mind cries. I have not become a leader. I
have not attained any knowledge. They say how much ever knowledge I have.
By taking a Kamandal I can go on a mountain.
I am satisfied. They are satisfied with the Kamandal. I don’t want to see my success
and my growth as leader. They decide I am satisfied. From mind they become satisfied. How much torture they go through.
Do you know? Their mouth speaks, their nose
speaks that they want to smell.. ..Tongue says I want to taste. ..Body says I want to feel. Ear says I want to listen to good things. Then they say I know what
people do, I am satisfied. The day they say I am satisfied… They enter the soul
automatically, its the fastest. It’s a choice. Remember it’s a choice. You want to do it, do it today. You can do it today. When you are ready. You will
walk on the path of the soul. And as you satisfy and come into soul. That person with the
Kamandal doing Japa alone. Comes back with complete knowledge. He has all knowledge. He gets Brahm Gyaan. Automatically it downloads. We don’t have to invent
anything in this world. It is already there. We just have to imbibe
it and just express it. All the knowledge of world is not
learnt from college and books. It’s only downloaded. Today if you decide that
you have to go in soul. Brahm Gyaan will automatically download. It could be related to
anything, it could be related to film industry, and it
could be related technology. It could be related to poetry, arts. It could be related to painting.
It will be related to who you are. Automatically the Brahm
Gyaan will download in you. And when Brahm Gyaan will downloaded you
will live happily…you will live happily. What will be the advantage and
disadvantage of entering the soul? You want to know. Now if you enter the soul,
if you enter your passion. What will be the advantage
and disadvantage of it? Advantage will be that.. All the sorrows, pain, worries,
anxieties in your life will go away. Today you are confused. Where I have to go?
What I have to do? What will happen tomorrow? Darks clouds
in front of your eyes will get vanished. You will stop looking at the past. You
will stop looking at your future. You will start looking
at the present. What I want to do today and
what makes me joyful? What I am today. If you are in the present; no
uncertainty will bother you. Also all the challenges around
you will become minimal. Your kids will improve on their own. Your spouse will
automatically come on line. You will attract people who
are right in your life. You will stop attracting negative
situations and people in your life. Because world is a mirror. As you change and enter the soul.. You stop attracting all these negative
people and situations in your life. But what are the disadvantages? Disadvantages are that all the
pleasure and pains of life… All the excitement, pleasure
in your life will go away. Extreme enjoyment, excitement
to chill will go away It’s your choice. You may not like things
that you liked before. Sitting out with friends. Doing
this and that will go away. The ‘thrill’ will go away. So if you are ready for that, then
you can start on this Chakra. Being spiritual is not an exciting
thing, but it is a calm motion. If those are waves, up and down,
then this is a calm motion. It’s our choice, you want to go
here or you want to be here. For some more time. Go up and
down for some more time. Later you have to come here. See it’s your choice. See you have to understand. No
one can hurt you if you allow. Right. When you connect to your
soul, when you become spiritual. You know you become pure. You remove all the negativity… You don’t speak ill of others; yes or no? You don’t do bad to others. You become pure from your side. But this a very big step. You have to make the outer world also pure. Yes. That you have to change… First understand that nobody
will hurt you purposely… Tell me in this room which
person purposely hurts someone? Tell? Is there anyone who just
goes and abuses someone? Tell me, anybody please raise your hands. Honestly… You purposely hurt a person. Said
this and that and hurt the person. Anyone? No one in this room. Even if I as the
whole Mumbai there will be no one. Today if you are satisfied and
someone is talking behind you… They are telling each other… He doesn’t have this and that. But when you are satisfied,
they will change. And what I am saying is, if
people around you are talking… There is something which
you need to notice… May be you need to notice. Because there can be only two reasons… First is that you feel that
people talk behind you. It could be your pattern, your belief. Because as I am telling, in spirituality.. We don’t have cleanse only ourselves.
It’s not that only you are nice. It’s not like Buddha
taught I became Buddha. Now I am best. No. Everyone around me is Buddha. Everyone… Everybody is pure. If a person says you don’t have this.. In that also your heart should be so
clean, that you should tell him.. You should be able to talk to him.
Understand from where he has come. Why he has got a grievance
that you have not done this.. May be it is the universe telling
you that you are prematurely satisfied and there are something
else you need to do in your life. Maybe you are a case of inaction.
You are not taking action. Understand, one case come to me… There was a client who came to me… He used to always say I
am very satisfied… I am very satisfied… But his wife said I am very unsatisfied.
My husband has not done this in life Right. So when you
say about relatives, that’s actually your
wife, now I understand. Yes. His wife said he doesn’t do any work. Just
sits at home and he is satisfied in it. Now he had a choice. He was very satisfied with suppose 8000. Wife said this not enough.
I have to raise kids, then make their marriage.
And wife was not working. For this you have to listen to
the relatives and the people. Because again I repeat it could be
a case of inaction from your side. You are saying you are satisfied
maybe it is your limit. And you are not doing
‘You are more’ You are not doing ‘You are more’. You are satisfied because you think
you are doing more that you expected. But what about you are more. Maybe you have to realize this… Maybe it is a positive thing; the universe
telling you ‘come on get up get up….’ Don’t be happy with this get up. do. Your body can get satisfied but
you have to enter your soul. Are you satisfied and
living your life purpose? Are you satisfied at sitting at home? If you are sitting at home. It’s serious. Because after satisfy, you
have enter your soul. You have live your purpose. Because today we have not
come to this world for body. We have not come for survival… We have not come for only mind… We have not come only for senses… We have come only for our soul.
And we have come to be a creator. If you are not a creator, you are stagnant. Stagnant means dead. Stagnant means dead…Yes…You
are doing some kind of creation. For suppose, Lata Mangeshkar or any
successful person suppose singing… But she is very satisfied
when she is singing… In whatever way she is singing whether
she is charging less or more… She is happy because she is singing… And she is satisfied that’s
a different satisfaction… And one satisfaction is a case I don’t want
to do anything, I want to sit at home. Because Whatever I have achieved.
I am satisfied with these kind of materialistic things
definitely it is not your wife. It is the universe… Universe is telling you get up.
You are more you can do more. Start getting up and doing it… Things that come to your environment.
they Come to evolve you. All the people who come around you… Whether it is your wife, whether it is your
parents, whether it is your friends… Every single person comes
for a particular reason. No person comes just like that. Every person is sent to
you to evolve you… Every single person. That is designed… Your kids are designed to evolve you. Every single person that comes is
meant to evolve you to perfection. ..To completion. Either Some person teaches you
I should not be like this. Some person teaches I
should be like this. Or teaches what I have
to change about myself. ..Or what I should release about myself. And universe automatically
takes a round shape. Suppose there is a tin box… Which has dents in it. Finally it
needs to become a complete box. Wherever there are dents in
it…Instruments are made around it. For The swollen side… becomes a hammer. Make it straight. Somewhere it is pressed… a vacuum pump
comes to bring out it’s properties. There are holes and gap… someone
comes to repair the hole and gap. To make you perfect universe
takes a complete initiative. You cannot satisfy everybody. But
first ask yourself are you satisfied? And are you living for others
or are you living for yourself? Remember this simple formula. If there is a problem in
the world around you. Is just because you need to evolve. It’s not that they have to be satisfied. They have to stop talking. They stop talking when you become evolved. They will disappear from your surroundings. Many people must have seen. Suppose
you meet a particular kind of boss. Right. Wherever you go you meet
a particular kind of boss. Maybe he is very critical
of you or whatever. Time comes when you
learn to handle such people and then you stop
having such bosses. People around you are
showing you the mirror in which ways you have
to change yourself. Don’t look at the world. World is like this because
you have to change. Evolve means you have to see.
You have to change. You have to go to
higher consciousness If you are in body now. Then mind,
senses then you have to enter the soul. You have to finally evolve when
you have to enter your heart. You have to do what you
love and that is evolution. What we are saying is you
can remove jealousy… By having a positive attitude… Right. Today if you hug someone, automatically that person
will hug you back. If you feel a person is criticizing you.
Talking negative about you… If you go and start smiling at that person. Tell him thank you. Praise
him in front of 2-3 people. Automatically he will become your follower.
He’ll keep on running after you. Okay this a short and practical mantra. And one thing we have understand
that nothing is permanent in life… Person who always criticize will not
do it forever He’ll burn his mouth. How much will he criticize. Person cannot be negative alone. It
is sun and shades – light and dark. First thing is we should
stop defining people. We should start going beyond people also. Going beyond. By just seeing don’t define a
person that he is like this. Because when he changes you panic. Good person can become bad
and bad can become good. Why have you defined that he is good?
What is good? According to the situation
anybody can become bad. If someone does something bad to you.
You will also punch him back. It’s a situation, everyone is
changing as per situation. And life’s final journey as I said. ..Is realization of Sat Chit Anand. And what do we realize in Sat Chit
Anand that we have to live in now. And when you live in that now… You forget yourself. When you sit with someone who loves you… Sit with your kids, sit
with your loved ones. You don’t realize yourself. Listen to some nice music. Watch a nice television show. Anything you see that you love. You forget yourself. Yes or No. Ultimate your aim is to
reach Sat Chit Anand. When you are all the time in now
and you don’t know who you are. You totally forget yourself. You don’t know your existence. You don’t know yourself. You
don’t care of yourself. My mind my soul my love. You don’t
know anything about yourself. You just live as a consciousness. That is Sat Chit Anand and in Sat Chit
Anand the moment you come in the now… There is no definition. Because in the now,
nothing has a definition. Today if I ask how is your wife? You have to compare that
she did this, then that. And if I ask you in different
time you will say she criticizes or you might say
that she is very good. Sometime you’ll say we have
struggled a lot…every time you’ll have a
different definition. But in the now, if I ask you
what is the definition. Of anyone close to you have no definition. This is the magic. In the
now there is no definition. Neither yours nor mine. Totally you come in the now
and everything becomes fresh. Everything happens on the exact time . According to that situation you
interact with the world… You interact with the people. According
to the situation you take action. It is not about one person being
good, bad, and helpful, criticizing. Criticizing person could
become a praising person. Good person can become a helpful person. Negative person can
become a positive person. All this is the game of time. Game of time. As you come in the now you forget
yourself as well as other people. You forget everything. You forget
the definition of everything.. When you see the now.
You see the situation. You see the circumstances, you see the
need of time and you take action. You take an action. Ultimately our purpose
is to come in the now. Why are we not able to come in the now? Because all the pleasure
and pains in life pull us. All the pleasure and pain
in life – they keep on pulling you and don’t let
you come in the now. First destroy the definition
of pleasure and pain. Because in reality there is no pleasure. In reality there is no pleasure. There is nothing called pleasure. If you call an experience with your friends
a pleasure that is also not pleasure. If it is pleasure no one feels it…
others doesn’t feel it. Taking a risk. What is pleasure in this? If it’s pleasure then
everyone should feel it. Yes or No. And if it’s pleasure it
should stay for life long. In childhood you played
Ring-a-ring roses… Is that a pleasure now? In childhood you ate candy.
Is that a pleasure now? ..Used to eat an orange ice-cream.
Is that a pleasure now? Used to eat lollipop.
Loaded with sugar for 2rs. Now it’s not a pleasure. That time for
it you used to cry and weep for it. Whatever you call pleasure today.
Whether it be what you are eating. Food gives you pleasure because you have a
memory for it…so it gives you pleasure. If today if you eat Aloo Paratha
and dahi outside your college… It will give you a lot of pleasure. If you eat Chole Bhature, your mother made
tasty kadi chaval now that is pleasure. But not necessary. There are many
people who hate kadi chaval. Many people who
hate Chole Bhature. If you call a German, and ask the person,
he would say what an oily, smelly thing. If it’s pleasure it should
be so for everyone. At the same time it should
a pleasure for you always. If you are sick today can you
eat that same Chole Bhature? Today your mood is bad can
you eat Chole Bhature? When you get up in the
morning and you are given Chole Bhature instead of tea.
Will you like it? For you also Chole Bhatura changed
in the morning, afternoon, night. According to health and mood it changes. Yes or No…Understand every pleasure
and pain like this is a definition. Every pleasure in life… Whether it be food, perfume, television.. Any kind of pleasure whether it
is smell, whether it is taste, whether it is touch, whether it is
sight, whether it is hear music. Everything is a definition. Definition comes because you
have compared with the past. With you it has got a Vritti. It is good because my mother
used to feed me with love. So I love to eat. When I see food I feel the love. We associate food with love. Food becomes a comfort for you.
When we feel we are lacking in love. We eat more
food to feel more love. These are all definitions and associations. Everything is association. If someone tells you, come
there is a good celebration. Immediately cake comes to your mind. Yes. Celebration means party. Enjoyment with friends
means going out to eat. These are all definitions. These definitions are made because of
some kind of association with the past. Everything is a past association. Every single definition. And it’s your individual
definition that keeps on changing. It changes in a day or with time. Till the time you don’t remove these
definitions you can’t come in the now. Remove the definition. This is wonderful. Today
when we come in now… There are many reasons behind it. Firstly what is the fear of coming in now? Because firstly our identity… All these fears and definitions we make.. Because of these definitions there is
pleasure as well as pain in our life. With this you make a definition. As you have defined some things as I
like it and some as I don’t like it. I don’t like that people criticize me. I don’t like failure. I don’t like losses. I don’t like, you know people cheating me. I don’t like people betraying me. And sorry. That comes true. When you come to the mode of now. So
stop attracting these negative things. Negative things are coming because
you have got a definition. All your definitions are
like these Vrittis. Your Chitta is your consciousness. And what is Chitta. You are the Chitta. You finally are Chitta. Chitta is you. Inside your Chitta there
are different Vrittis. Vritti means definition. And definition you can’t say I
have only positive definitions. If 50 are positive then
50 have to be negative. 50 have to be negative.
Then it will balance. The Number of things you love, the
same number of things you don’t love. Number of things that give you pleasure,
the same number of things give you pain. According to your Vrittis you
attract situations. You attract. Automatically those kind of
people come to your life. That kind of circumstances come.
That fulfills the Vritti. You attract as per your Chitta. Basically to clean the Chitta. You have to destroy all the definitions. Destroy it and burn it…with Gyana Yog First we have to understand that in this
life we have come without any liability… There is no liability. Today our kids are not our liability. We have no responsibility and liabilities. Today every relationship in
the world is a partnership. It’s a partnership. It’s
a clear partnership. We are not responsible to
make our children great. We are not responsible
but it is a partnership. And we honor the partnership. When your kids are growing up you provide
them food, clothing, shelter, etc. If they want your guidance you
will give them your guidance… Not necessary if you are a good
mother, your children will be good. And not necessary if the
lady is uneducated, the child is not the Prime
Minister of the country. So you understand that your child’s
destiny is not dependent on you… Child already knows what he has come for… He has chosen you in your life. He has chosen you, you
have not chosen the child. Child has chosen you because that was
the right environment for the child. So we have to understand that in
life everything is a partnership. When we play our role as a mother it
is only food, clothing and shelter. Child plays his role. We don’t have any liability. Today it is not our responsibility
to you know help the children. Today if you are working in a company
then it is not your liability that I should do it well or I
should make it successful. I reality when we think of liability
we feel weak. We feel powerless. We feel pulled down. Think that this is not my liability. I am doing my part. You do your part. Like today I am having
these Chakra Yog classes. I don’t have any liability
that I should evolve someone. I have no responsibility. I am living my being. I am
living what is my true nature. And when I express that… If you want to take advantage take.
If not, don’t. It’s your choice. Prasad is being given – some take
it some don’t. Their choice. So we don’t have any
liability in this world. If liability would be there,
all the gods would be tense. Today all punishments and problems
we get…God only gives them. Yes or no…The universe
gives the life gives. So we have to understand when
we take it as a partnership. Everything like a partnership
your parents a partnership. You don’t have a liability to parents.
It’s a partnership. They help you when you were growing up. Now they are old you help them.
It’s honoring the partnership… It’s only honoring the partner. Today you are working in a company
or you are working as a teacher. You don’t have any liability
for your children. You don’t have any liability
for your employees. You will do your part. Let
the children do their part. When you take like a responsibility
there is a push, pull, control.. ..expectations, hurt, etc.
and nobody has freedom. If you leave your kids free,
they will evolve more in life. Leave you partner free they will evolve. Leave your employees free.
They will evolve. They will understand their
responsibilities by themselves. I will realize I am not doing work because
my boss has told me, he is controlling me. They will realize I am doing
the work because I enjoy it. Because this is me…I enjoy doing. When we think of liability,
responsibility, control, the natural instinct of
people gets suppressed. Employees cannot work freely.
They cannot work with enjoyment. They cannot work with freedom. In life we have to learn
to release all controls. First understand why are we controlling..? Why are we controlling..? We are trying to control our.. Office people. We are trying
to control our customers. He will go somewhere else. We
try to control our suppliers. They’ll give it to someone.
We try to control. In your company if your boss removes you.
Everywhere you are trying to control. When you control there is a lot
of pressure on your heart. And when pressure is there, what
happens to us? Blood Pressure. First understand why are we controlling? What is the fear of leaving control? If I leave the control everyone
will go here and there? Why we are controlling because we are
satisfying our ego, that because everything is in my control. Everything
in my house is under my control. So it’s running well. Yes. One is your ego is getting satisfied… That I have controlled
it…so it is running well. Why are we controlling? Yes… This is my family. This is mine.
Let me control. Because if I leave it… If I leave it…it will get spoilt… If I don’t control my child.
He won’t study. He is not going to study. I beat him. And made him study. Only because of me…is it true? Is it true? Realize that if you had left the control.
He would have loved to study with his natural instinct.
Today he has become your enemy. So number one why are we trying to control? We are trying to control only out of fear. We have fear that if I leave the control. Employees won’t work. Few will go here and few there. Customers will go somewhere else… Right so the day we leave control… What will happen? They will become our partners. Leaving control doesn’t mean.
Stop supervising completely. Leaving control means they are partners… I am playing my role. I trust them
to play their role. I trust them. If there is no trust. It is of no use. So when you say I am playing my part… In a family. In a relationship… If I am a proper spouse… If I am a father I am playing
the part of the father. Better they play the part of the
children and they are partners. If it doesn’t work you have to communicate.
You have to talk. We are going to negotiate. But
there will be no control… What happens when the people are not
able to control? They leave it. I don’t have any control. That is also not good. When people are not able to control
something, they just leave it.. With a fear that I don’t
have any control. Then life goes totally
out of their control… We have to realize that
when we remove control… From family and from our
working environment… From our relationship… You can’t go anywhere; you
have to be only with me.. Control on relationship, work.. Today why people live in a threatened
life in their work space… In office why it is always
feeling threatened… Because they feel if
instability comes in me… I have to control… They are very much worried what
the boss thinks about them. What the colleagues
think about them. Basically it is a control… They want to control their environment.. So are you realizing that fear of control? Yes. If there is a fear inside you
that I want to control.. And if I stop controlling
everything will get spoilt… Only then we will be ready
to release the control… Even that also we have to remove… We have to remove the control
lines of people controlling us… People control us when we feel that we
have something to take from people… Person also knows he has
something to take from me. We have to understand that nobody has
to give or take anything in this world. Nobody is more superior than the other.. Everyone is a partner.. What you give, they also give the same. Today when you are grooming your child.
You know. Giving stability. When you become old the
child will honor his path.. So today the control lies.
Someone controls you because somewhere you feel
dependent on the person. Somewhere you feel you are getting
something from the person. See the moment you said the word dependent. If you are dependent on the person.
Control will come. Firstly why are you dependent; in
what why do you think physically, emotionally, mentally, socially
you need anybody in your life? Firstly remove the dependency. Why you think you need
someone physically…? Remove the dependency. Do you think if today
you have got a spouse? ..Or you have got someone
taking care of you… Are you dependent on the person? Are you dependent?
Dependent is a word means that I cannot do
without the person… Do you feel you are physically
dependent or it’s a relationship…? Yes? It’s a relationship right.. Fear of dependency that I cannot
manage without this person.. I need this person physically… Whether it is your employee,
whether it is your driver, whether it is
someone working for you… If it is your spouse it is your girlfriend,
if you feel dependency on someone. It could be physical need, it could
be emotional, and it could be mental. The moment you start depending on someone
the person starts controlling you. First see yourself. What
is my dependency..? And the fear of losing
that person in life.. Remove that.. Someone else will come. I agree
that the person is the best.. Still I release the fear of losing.. I release the fear of
losing only then the dependency will go and it
will become a partnership. If there is dependancy there will always
be expectation, control, push, pull… ..Frustration, helplessness. And the
person’s natural instinct won’t come out.. In Mahabharata, the scene
of Draupati’s ChirHaran This is in the Swadhisthana Chakra. This story tells us the limit; that
until which limit we have to be good. until which limit we have to defend? If you understand the story
in a spiritual way.. The story of Mahabharata,
in Swadhisthana Chakra. Draupati’s story.. She signifies Aatma. You are Draupati. And these 5 Pandavas are your
5 significant qualities. Arjun was a skillful and
intelligent warrior. Bheem power. Everyone has a strength. Everyone has intelligence and warrior. And at the same time Yudhisthir
…Satyavadi…Follower of Dharma. You also want to follow Dharma. There is a positive thing inside you
that you have to follow Dharma. Nakul and Sahadev were also very
talented and skillful people. These are the 5 properties inside you.. What was the story of Mahabharata.. When you follow Dharma too much.. I want to do exactly as per principles.. You are taken advantage of. Yes or No? In Mahabharata you can see
all type of characters. Like Ashvathama was killed by saying that.. He was not killed…Rushi was told that.. Your son Ashvathama is dead. Then what he did he got an elephant,
crowned it named it Ashvathama. And went and said Ashvathama is dead. Yudhisthir always says the
truth so he asked he is dead? Yes Ashvathama elephant has died. It tells you that to win,
you have to fold your fingers to remove the
ghee from the bottle. And it is okay. All is
fair in love and war. You don’t have to be so naive. Lot of people come to me
saying that I am very good. I do good for others they
take advantage of me, I give them money but
they don’t return it. I asked him why you give money…? He told me such a soft
story that I gave him… From this story we learn don’t be naive.
Be a nice person… You can’t be foolish you can’t be naive. You should be smart. If
you give someone money. You should also know
how to take back money If you take care of someone you should
know that I will get it in return… Or otherwise you do and forget… Do good. Put it in the well. So you should know to protect
your boundaries. UNTIL HERE… 5 petals of Swadhisthana
are these 5 Pandavas. 6th petal is Karan. If you see Mahabharata then
Karan was their own brother. But he fights against them.
So today who is against you? Your ego. Your own ego. You will say I will give him money.
You have an ego in it… If I don’t give money I
will not be a good person. If you don’t help him. You
will not be a good person. Your own ego goes against you. This is a story of Mahabharata.
Every story has a meaning. One more story I will tell
you of Samudra Manthan. In Samudra Manthan one side devils
are there and the other gods. They rub the Manthan and
try to get good things but their ultimate aim is to
get the divine nectar. This Manthan is continuously
there in your body.. Continuously the good qualities
inside you come out.. Honesty, positivity, hard work.. ..Truthfulness all your good
qualities they are the Dev. in you. And at the same time telling
lies, being dishonest.. ..Not working, procrastinating,
laziness, self-doubt.. These are your negative qualities.. Between both qualities
Manthan takes place.. I won’t give, I want this. In some people devils win. And in some God wins. And our aim is truth should win.
God should win. When both do Manthan good
things come out of it. Yes, Lakshmi comes, your
power to earn wealth also comes from it…from the
churning inside you. Lakshmi, Kalpvruksh, Kaamdhenu Cow come All the 14 ratna had come out
from the Samudra Manthan. Manthan what else had come out? Poison. During manthan lot of
negativity comes inside you. How Manthan happens life
sends you challenges. Life sends challenges. Sends bad people in front of you.. Puts you in a situation
that you can’t handle. When you see this negativity
a poison comes out of you. You get so angry. You want
to destroy everything. I want to be good, I want to struggle. I want to come up in life but I
am still in these challenges. When the poison comes up
in you, you get a choice. Can I drink it and destroy myself.. Or else the Parvati. It
is your mind, your logic. Parvati tells you to
hold it in your throat. It is here hold it…you want to blurt it,
spit it…you can’t throw it nor gulp it. Parvati says stop it here. Because in Vishuddha Chakra who resides.
Your guru. By logic of your guru you
can destroy poison.. And that is what we do in Chakra Yog. All the poison we just destroy it. If a person behaves badly
with you, smile at him. Love him.. Remove the definition that
he is being bad to you. Nobody is actually bad to you. Nobody
is actually bad to other person. No one is bad. People express what they think. It’s your choice whether to
take it or to not take it. No one is bad. Nothing is pleasure or pain. Keep it here… logic is here. Do one experiment. If you think.
Something is very negative. If you think there is too much poison
I don’t know how to digest it. Bring it here and just look
at it for two minutes. You will be surprised that all the
anger, negativity will go away. Just keep it here.. Don’t bring it to your
stomach and try to digest and process it That why
did it happen to me. Just put it here and think about it.. When you Focus your
tention with that poison. With that negativity here. You’ll find the answer. All these stories are built in our DNA. For us to learn the lessons, okay. There are all gurus who exist. Time and again they are coming.
After Buddha, Mahavir, time and again
they are coming. And everyone is telling some part of life. No guru tells you the whole life. Every guru is telling. One part of life. Buddha taught you renunciation. What was Buddha’s main message? Desire is a cause of all sufferings. Understanding is a very deep thing. Understanding is a very deep thing. How desire is the cause of all suffering. Understanding it properly
is also very important. IT doesn’t mean you will renounce. You will
leave the house and live somewhere else. No…He said all the desires in you… They all are external.. That’s why I said that In
Chakra Yog level 2…when we remove our association with
the Mind, body, senses, soul Desire will not be there only.
Desire means calling of your soul. People who actually live their creativity.. They don’t have a desire. Rabindranath Tagore’s desire
was not to write poetry.. He was a poet. Today if A.R.Rahman composes music. He
does not have the desire to compose music. He is a music composer. Your karma and desire totally annihilate
when you connect to your soul. Mind body senses have a karma in
you…a doing a feeling a thinking. When you come into soul,
you are left with. Be . Be. Today the cow doesn’t
want to give you milk. She is a milk giving cow. Today the dog is loyal to you because
he is a dog. It’s his trait. So today every person who
achieves self-realization. He doesn’t have the desire
to serve the humanity. Today your ultimate life purpose
is not to serve the humanity. Your ultimate life purpose is to live
beyond me…who am I…I want to live. When you realize that what I want
to live that is my true love.. That is my lover, that is my true passion. Then you realize that is my
true passion and true love. When you realize your true
love…you will run behind it. You’ll find yourself. You are not searching for anything.
You are only searching for yourself. When we say you are more. We mean to say
that you are more than what you think.. You are constantly evolving.
You can’t stop. You are constantly evolving. This
is the voice of the universe.. Today why Krishna told Arjun.
Come on. Get up fight. It is not about procrastinating. It
is not about putting your feet back. It is about action. Every single god, every
single story is about action. When we say that you are more it is
basically that you have to evolve. You can’t be stagnant at all. That is why there is DNA inside
us, we are never satisfied. You have to experience, after
all when you reach your being.. Right, in being also
you keep on evolving. Once Einstein made the bulb.
He did not evolve… he did not evolve.. With bulb, electricity was made.
Many electronic things were made which has
kept him still alive. Graham bell had made a dialing phone, now
we have reached such high-tech phones. That knowledge has only evolved. Because today universe’s
call is that you are more. Universe’s intention that you are more. You are born for experiencing only.. We don’t invent anything new.. What we invent was already created. If a Mithaiwala makes sweets.. He created a new sweet, he is
the creator of that sweet. Basic ingredients were already there. Someone made television, radio, Waves were already present yes or no. Whatever is there, the
ingredients are already present which means it
was already planned. Yes or no…who has made the raw material. Today if A.R.Rahman has made music but
sur (musical notes) were present. Now understand. Who made
sur…Words were also present. And nobody knows the origin.. Everything we are only assembling. we are only assembling everything
and enjoying the game. All ingredients are present this
was a Einstein’s statement. Today if you want to make
Apple Pie from the scratch if you want to make Apple
Pie from the scratch. You will have to
reinvent the universe. For an apple you will search for a tree. Search a tree. You can’t understand
it is the design of the universe. The job you have come…for this the
ingredient is already present. You have to find it,
assemble it, mark your name on it and live. It is
all about experience. You are more. You have got huge potential.
Immense potential.. And understand. Even after
you live your being. After that you can’t sit quiet. Even after you become
evolved, self realised. Your work doesn’t end there. You create a group to spread it,
work on it, create it. Who evolve it After Aryabhatta discovered
0 he did not stop. Many numbers came, computers came.
Super Computers came. It didn’t stop. Because
life doesn’t stop. life doesn’t stop. Today universe supports only
active people who work. You cannot stay stagnant; everybody works.. One is physical, mental, sensory working.. One is being. As a Being, you have the
maximum frequency and you are the fastest. As a being.. So you are born for that. Universe likes you are more. Mithaiwala
doesn’t sell only one sweet. You buy one or two. But he has a spread.
Universe likes spread it like infinite. Sweets
infinite..Colours..Infinite. Yes or no..There are
only 7 primary colours, but together, infinite
colours can be made. Green only has 100 shades. Light green, dark
green, parrot green. Bottle green. All kind
of greens can be made. Understand universe
likes only infinite.. Colours will be infinite.
Perfumes will be infinite. Yes. Taste food will be infinite. Sceneries you see. Infinite. Material that you touch
and feel infinite. Music and Sur Infinite. Today in this world everything
has to be infinite. Universe loves only that. Only that. There is no limit. Universe has no limit. Things can be bigger and better.
You might think I have achieved. But no you
have to achieve more. Then more, then more.. Whatever you have created today, over
that also something can be created. Over that also. As in Rudraksha. Because I have
done lot of research in Rudraksha. In Rudraksha I did research
from 1 to 21 Mukhi. Over 21 Mukhis I couldn’t research.
After that my powers were taken away. After 21mukhi I was told to stop. But universe did not stop after 21 Mukhi. Today there are Rudraksha.
Today I own 43 Mukhi. In Rudraksha also, God said that
I don’t want to stop at only 21. He doesn’t want anything to stop.
Even numbers don’t stop. After infinite also there
must be many numbers.. On Both sides, in minus also.. In Rudraksha also till first
year we thought oh. I got 27.. I got maximum. Then next year 32 came. Then 38…this year it is 48. Universe wants to show. Whatever research I have done… Someone
else will come maybe after few years… To do more research and study
about the other Rudraksha. Someone will come to
expand the study. Everything grows, nothing
ends in the universe. Nothing has an end. Even
if you attain Moksha, you have to work to
make it more and more. You might not have a physical body.. But you have to make other
people do more and more. Today lot of people, situations, things
you are trying to control in your life. Or you are being controlled by them. And basically why you are controlling them
or why you are being controlled by them? Somewhere you think it
is your responsibility. Somewhere you think if I remove
this they will go out of control. And I will start having
losses, problems, etc. The situation will go out of control. It’s a fear. Yes or no. We have to understand the
universe is manifesting. The perfect environment for you every time. Yes or no..universe gives you
perfect things, perfect tools. We have to trust those tools. If you don’t trust the tools, the
tools will remain like inert objects. Today if you trust your
children, spouse, employees.. ..Customers. Remove the control lines then
they will evolve to their natural state. At the same time your stress,
frustration, helplessness will go… Your negativity will go
when you leave the control. So the moment you leave the control lines
it will automatically become partnership. You don’t have to make it a partnership
it will become a partnership. What happens in partnership? What is the trait of a partnership..
First understand that. Partnership means number one, trust. Second I will do my part and I
know you will do your part. I will not force you. I will not control you. I will not
belittle you to do your part. I will believe and trust
that you will do your part. Today all of us want to do our part
in the partnership. Yes or no? We want a partnership right.
It has got a meaning in life.. So the moment you take
everything like a partnership. Yes they do their part. You do your part. And then you have to communicate. Talk
sometimes you have to be strong also.. Partnership does not mean
you have to sit like this. You have to take action.. Yes you have to take action. So what question you were
asking me in the break that.. ..if there is a partnership and
these people are doing wrong.. What should I do? Should I
just open my heart with trust. I say open your heart with trust…but
use your communication and power. To corner them and bring the
situation in your favor. Manipur has to be strong and
if you get the work done. Either you work or go out. I
will get another partnership. In partnership, release the fear
of losing partnership also. Get a new partnership also.. Leaving a partnership is very easy. Develop your partnership also. Use
your power to modify. To change. Yes,and basically it is
only love and trust. Have trust. Most of the time
partnership’s end. It’s trust. But we have to understand
if from our side we trust. Automatically they will also trust. In partnership like relationships.. We can’t leave the partners,
right, but we have to understand.. In every partnership we have a
power…we do have a power. It could be power of love, it
could be power of society. There is a kind of power and we can
use the power to change that person. To change the person or change
the situations in our favour. We can do it…there are many many methods. Many times people get stuck up in emotions. And that is why they are not
able to get the thing done. You should have trust also, communication
also, convincing power also… You have to use all these tactics.
And power also, external legal
help also, if required.. Right. It is about saam, daam, dand, bhed. It is a favour. But you only work
when there is a partnership. If it was a kind of responsibility
and then you start feeling guilty. Oh it is my relationship.
I cannot do this.. Then it won’t work. Today why do you have so
many thoughts in your mind.. Because there are so many fears.. When you are scared, you
look here and there.. So today why you are going in the past
and why you are going in the future? ..because of fears. In spiritual language everything is a fear. Till the time you don’t come out of the
fear you cannot realize your natural self. natural self is like an onion In the onion you just keep peeling it.. Peeling doesn’t stop. Finally what remains in the
Centre is nothing. Vacuum That is you. Finally you are nothing. Finally you have to understand
that you are nothing. To realize that you are nothing.
You have to away everything that you think
you are something. For this spiritual approach
is always opposite. It’s opposite. It’s a destruction process. That’s why Shiv is called the destroyer.. Shiv makes you realize who you are. You must have Heard the mantra Shivoham I am Shiv. So finally everyone becomes Shiv..You don’t
become Brahma, you don’t become Vishnu. You become Shiv. But understand that when
we say we are nothing. You have no existence. Finally you
are an intelligent consciousness. Your existence that you think that I
am physical self. I am a Role play. I am the one who enjoys
the pleasure and pain. Actually you are none of
these existence (Vajud). You are just an intelligent
consciousness. That consciousness has come to
evolve to realize that you are more. To realize that consciousness, you have to
release every single definition of yours. Only then you can connect
to that consciousness. So this is the meaning of it. Something like in a simple way.. Suppose I give you. You want to paint.. Okay you want to paint.. I give you one small paper to paint. You’ll draw on that.. If I give you a bigger book.
You’ll paint there.. If I give a canvas you will paint there. If
I remove the canvas, where will you paint? When you remove the canvas only. The
world is there for you to paint. And then you become unlimited. And when you
become unlimited, there is no Vajud left. Your Vajud is only till there
are things which are limited.. Yes. If I ask what is
the Vajud of infinite.. Show infinite by hand. Small, more.
Less very small… You can’t show like this also.
You can’t show like this also. When you become infinite you lose Vajud. Because you can’t define.
There is nothing to define. Another way. I can explain is.. Suppose you look at the world.. Ok..Suppose you look at the world… You are able to look at
different parts of the world. You are able to look at the trees, plants.
Minerals the people You are able to look right. So you can tell everyone’s Vajud. But if you become the world. If you become the world then.
There’s no Vajud. Self-realization is to become the world.
When you become everything. When you become everything,
you will be the Vajud. What will you define there
is nothing to define. You can only define when there
is an opposite with you.. There’s a law, if you see one train going.. You can only check its speed when
something is slow or stationary. If two trains are going at the same speed.
Can you measure the speed.? You have to have a comparison right. When you become everything
there is no Vajud left. Spirituality you have to
understand like this. pour it within ourselves. God gives us many tools, right.. Understand that you are not left alone.. To do all this.. Today universe wants you
to realize that self.. Today it has created a pair of opposites. Today we cannot come. We cannot compare
till there are pairs of opposites… Can you play a football game?
Without an opponent..? Can you play that we have to win.
Make a goal. Will you enjoy the game? Yes? There have to be 2 parties.
Winning one and losing one. You cannot experience till
there are no opposite poles.. So today the universe is made
with those opposite poles. And as you see. Different
parts of opposite. This part will also get removed. And as you remove, you will
realize your true self. But universe sends you many tools. Gives you so many books and speakers. Who make you understand how
to walk on the right path. It gives you so many remedies. Like Rudraksha is a very powerful remedy. When you wear Rudraksha on your body.
Your all fears are released. Just by wearing them on the body… Rudraksha represents the
frequency of the Gods. If you wear 14 mukhi then you’ll
call Hanuman to be with you. If you wear 19 mukhi…you
call Narayana to be with you. When you wear Rudraksha on your body.
Those Gods’ energies are with you. Similarly. Gemstones. When you wear those gemstones those
planets are with you. I think we are all soul families. Because The Speaker has no Vajud
if the audience is not there. I come here for you. If you only
don’t come, then what is my Vajud. A Singer has no Vajud. If
audience is not there. World’s any achievers Vajud
is not there. If there is no one to appreciate.
To listen to them. So I thank you all also. Thank you for
helping me live my life purpose.

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