A Message About Love – TEAL SWAN (The Spiritual Catalyst)

A Message About Love – TEAL SWAN (The Spiritual Catalyst)

I’m going to speak to you today about the rather
complicated subject we call Love Many cultures around the world have multiple words which represent all the different kinds of love that there are. In English language however, the word
love is used to refer to a wide variety of experiences. It may be the word used to represent feeling states, attitudes, pleasures or strong affections felt for any number of things: from romantic attachments, to sexual attachments, to platonic attachments. This practice of using one term to cover a wide variety of definitions as well as complex emotional states is partly responsible for the confusion most people alive today have with regards to the idea of love. It is for this reason that I would like to introduce you to the way that the universe at large sees love. It is a feeling space rather than a cerebral concept, therefore, it is an experience rather than an intellectualization. To the universe at large and therefore your transcendental eternal self, love is not just an emotion or a virtue, it is the basis for all physical and non
physical being All things created were created from
love, to love. Love is in essence, the profound feeling
space of total and complete oneness. Because your Higher Self is constantly
in the reality of oneness it is in the state of constant
unconditional love but because we are in a space, in this
three-dimensional reality, of separateness unconditional love is a feeling space it is a mental attitude it is a decision we make and most
importantly, it is a skill to be developed loving is something we learn to do and loving unconditionally is a lifelong practice. Loving unconditionally is not something that can be experienced outside the parameters of worth. If you are still basing worth of yourself or others on externals, such as: what a person does and says, their talents, their gender, their aptitudes or their shortcomings you are practicing conditional love. To unconditionally love is to see the true essence of your own worth as well as the worth of others. To unconditionally love others is to see
that worth has nothing to do with externals i.e. anything they would leave behind in death. It is also to see the identical nature of
your as well as their core essence and allow yourself in that recognition, to experience the unchanging
eternal feeling space of that unity regardless of any conditions that
differentiate you from them, in this life. No one on this Earth deliberately practices
conditional love but most people of Earth today practice
conditional love by default Most people do not know any other way to love not only because conditional love is the kind of love that is demonstrated to them, and people learn primarily by example, but also because most people have forgotten their eternal non physical and therefore true nature. People often labor under the false premise that, feeling love for something is conditioned upon that external thing first being enjoyable and so if it is not, it must change first
before it is lovable. This could not be further from the truth. Nowhere is this more paramount than in the
relationship between you and yourself. No suffering is ever about another
person. It is always the result of the
relationship between you and yourself. You can never get anything else other than external relationships that are an exact reflection of the internal
relationship you have with yourself. So the real question to ask yourself is: Am I practicing unconditional love with myself? If you do not feel unconditional love for yourself, it feels terrible because it is an opinion towards yourself that your Higher Self does not share and so, you will feel the disharmony of that
extreme lack of resonance between you and you and so, the person with whom unconditional love must start is with the epicenter of your reality: yourself. From there, the unconditional nature of your love
will reflect out across everything else in your life. No achievement could ever fill the void
where our self love should be and no one else could ever love someone
enough to compensate for their lack of self-love. In order to get love, you must give it. You cannot give love if you do not give it to yourself. It may seem a bit backwards that the second you are able to get love from someone else is the second you do not need it because you have already achieved it within yourself and are no longer, therefore, experiencing the need for it but this is how the universe works. You cannot in truth, ever gain anything from the need of it. This is because need is the energetic
equivalent of not having therefore, the only thing that you can
attract into your life is more “not having”. It is only when you get to the energetic vicinity of already having whatever it is that you want, that you can get it. You do this by incrementally training your thoughts
to the space of having love. And so, the best way to get
unconditional love is to ask yourself: What unconditional love of yourself
would look like and feel like to you? and then focus solely upon that. Choose to give your undivided attention to what you do like about yourself. Try to reach for this feeling space of
your true essential nature. Don’t condemn yourself for any externals
you have picked up in your physical life, including the fact that you may be experiencing
the lack of love for yourself at this
instantaneous temporary point in time. It may take a good amount of time to
gradually train yourself into self-love, as it has undoubtedly taken some time for you
to be influenced out of self-love. It does not matter how long it takes all that matters is that you are withdrawing your focus from anything that feels bad to think about yourself and refocusing on things that feel good to think about yourself. This simplistic practice may seem no match for the daunting task of really unconditionally loving yourself because it could have been something that has alluded you for years. The fact of the matter is that self-love usually alludes people for years because they do not realize that it is within their power at any moment to think different thoughts than those which are already so much a part of their habitual thought patterns that they feel uncontrollable. Practicing kind thoughts that are an energetic match to
self-love will help you experience your worth in all its full bounty and once you begin to manifest it towards yourself, it can do no other than manifest
towards everyone else in your experience.


  1. That was thought provoking. Could you advise me on the best method to meditate. I suffer from D.I.D and find it really hard it to quieten down the voices. I really would like to find my higher self and contact the source to find conciousness. I have tried drugs like DMT and cannabis. I have tried guided and listening to music. Please help me to remember. Thank you.

  2. I am beautiful… As i am,…. in you aswell.. Teal i love how u understand our message. And i thru u teach it very well ……..with the help of many benevolent guides i Thank you.

  3. This is a very helpful message to hear. I was almost there but you articulated it so clearly that I think it will now stay with me in a deeper and more lasting way. Thank you, Teal. <3

  4. I absolutely love all of your teachings Teal, its a pleasure to have met with your knowledge in this lifetime,
    Many blessings to you xxx

  5. Hello Teal! 🙂
    You said something along the lines of always being in the state of not having or needing if you feel you need something, correct? So, does this apply to basic needs such as food, water, and shelter? Wouldn't that sort of "need" go away once it is satisfied? In a sense, we are in a constant state of needing such amenities, but during the short period of time between satisfaction and re-need, would one be outside the state of not having?
    Thank you, hopefully that's coherent!

  6. Hello everybody. I absolutely Love your knowledge.But there is a thing going on with me.I do get headache whenever i concentrate on your video.Can you or anyone explain this condition to me. thankyou

  7. I would personally say that narcissism would be if you are not acknowledging that the love of your self is also loving the core essence of others. That is, you are treating others as if they do not exist or share a higher level of existence with you.

  8. Sorry im not teal, but i was thinking about this question. You can unconditionally love the choice someones experience is: holding on to the idea having conditional love. Because respecting someones freewill is also unconditional love. You can only open doors for another, they have to walk trough the door themself. So bascily in this way it is possible.

  9. Even for just a moment, I will show resistance.

    I seriously think Windtalker300 needs a lot of attention. You simply just don't get it, do you. Why don't you create videos yourself instead of stupidly commenting and trolling on every single video in youtube about higher consciousness and awareness?!

  10. Lol love this vid and the comment below some peeps do need to stop downing other views and just let them be Teal u are amazing

  11. i don' know rather to believe your life story or not but for some reason I believe or understand your videos. Everything you say just make sense. I just don't know to believe anymore though because there is evidence that your life story is a lie or that your not telling the whole truth which make me doubt your videos but at the same time every time I watch your videos I get this "ahhh yes this all make sense" feeling ……………….ugh im so confused!!!

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  13. I always have questions at the end of each of your videos. For instance… I'm trying to get someone to love me but I guess I need to love myself first? I didn't know that I didn't love myself, but if that's the answer… How do I love myself?

  14. There are healing frequencies in the background music. If you feel trance-like or like you're falling asleep, go with it. You will feel AMAZING when you wake up. 🙂

  15. I would like to know how to love myself as I am now.
    However, the thing did not succeed. I wonder if it is cased by ego after all.
    Thanks for speaking about unconditional love.

  16. I think it is hilarious that folks fuss about whether of not Love is unconditional or not. There is only One, when True. By nature IS unconditional. BY NATURE , True Love is "blind" and so this means it does not "see" any conditions. That is its very nature. Like water is wet. In affect, there is no "stopping" Love from "working." It will not fail . Under any conditions. I do not see why to be concerned as to whether or not ACTUAL water is wet. If it is True, Love (k)nows no conditions. It is blind!

  17. I don’t believe self love can be developed by thinking good thoughts about yourself or redirecting thoughts towards more positive aspects of one self ! Self love is developed as you become aware of your issues and by working on them and by being commited to change whatever it is which is not in allignment with our true selves ! If I have low self esteem I must work on it by being aware through experiences I have everyday rather by not dealing with it and redirecting my thoughts

  18. crouching tiger hidden swan ahhh yes I see you have mastered the arts of love but what about the marital arts kia!!!

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